you see there is a new girl in my highschool [in my class] and for the first time
since a very long period i feel shy and i kinda wanna ask her out on a date and for real
i dont know how so can some one give me an advice or something?

Be friend with her first? That is what I'll do (not that I'm good at these things :P)

Now before you even think about using my advice, keep in mind I am worse at the dating game than Keiichi and know about as much about the rules and some stuff as Belldandy does about... earth customs, mannerisms, what to do/say or not to do/say.

Now disclaimers aside, I have to say that some advice that I'll give hinges on the Russsian driving age and if you have a licence do drive on your own.

1)Insert yourself into her life ASAP bc girls can fill their schedule tightly for months.
2)Offer to show her around the town and show her the fun spots, bars (I dont know the Russian drinking age), clubs, good restaurants, and the stadium. Include the arcade if your brave enough or if she is the type.
3)Be nice. (Then again some girls like assholes but its safer to be nice.)
4)Cover for a meal or two but not too much or she may leech. (Thats for nondateing meals together)
5)Ice cream (every girl has a little Skuld in em)
6)DO NOT use "I Like You" or "I Love You" seriously early in the game or else its all over. Its hard to recover from an early confession.
7)DO NOT stare intently at her boobs, it may be hard but keep it on her face.

I cant think of anything else. Use my tips with caution bc I am bad at dating and am accepting of the fact that I am going to die alone a virgin.

you Forgot one "BE YOUR SELF NOT SOME WANNABE GUY!!!!!!!!" thats all ^_^

Lol, you better think twice before getting involved with girls... they're sneaky, evil, selfish... They only look for the perfect guy: Good Looking, Rich, and... Rich (hmm...also a big stick would be required) :p

hmm since im just 15 [almost 16] i dont think i have a licence =S
and yeah i know a bar or two that my friend is running
tnx for anyone supporting me too =D you give me a great help
but what sould i say when ill start to talk to her?
lol also a big stick xDDD

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Lol, you better think twice before getting involved with girls... they're sneaky, evil, selfish... They only look for the perfect guy: Good Looking, Rich, and... Rich (hmm...also a big stick would be required) :p

i agree. know her first, ask around. a good background check would do you real good. and it pays off, trust me. (a bad image would be if she had lots of boyfriends in the past, more than 7 is kinda weird for a girl, specially her age) any clear news about her if she had cheated on someone then my guess is out. :p
if she's 'outgoing', be sure that you are almost twice as outgoing as her, she'll be looking for some fun ,
(probablly has a nightlife) it means you have to spend...
x_x money and precious time
dont go 'obbessed', you'll lose cocentration on your studies, work and your life.
well, if she turns oyt to be someone like Belldandy...
x_x.. i will most envy you...

if im a bit over it then im sorry, lol :D
it's just that i dont want anyone else to end up like i did x_x
good luck with your new foud friend mustang =)

oh, and if everything turns out okay... and you're together, dont let it mess your life/studies.
and dont put a seesaw between her and your friends... (for good reason if you want your relationship to last, dont treat her not only as a girlfriend, treat her as one of your friends, its hard to explain, ill fill you in later hehe) friendship could get you far. *grin
XD hehe. good luck

yea i agree with the background check thing, bc you dont want to do all that stuff and get deep feelings and then find out that shes a lesbian. You dont want to be like me and almost ask out a lesbian. though with the lesbian thing, get that double checked with multiple sources bc one source could just be some one trying to derail her life or yours.

As for what to say... you might be on your own.

id help but i suk at dating ^^'.lol

just b urself & treat her with kindness.thats has always workd 4 me.^^

yea, just be friends first.....even if things dont turn out like you wanted it, atleast you'll have fun memories to cherish...it's all cool.

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yea i agree with the background check thing, bc you dont want to do all that stuff and get deep feelings and then find out that shes a lesbian. You dont want to be like me and almost ask out a lesbian. though with the lesbian thing, get that double checked with multiple sources bc one source could just be some one trying to derail her life or yours.

As for what to say... you might be on your own.

XD haha.. lesbian? that'll be really painful,
unless of cors she'll accept you because of reasons ^^.
but chances of that are kinda low ya know, :D
dont count on that,
and yeah, dont just rely on a couple of sources,
get it from the right people, (a friend of hers, a relative of hers, etc.)
not from some friend who you know or
can tell that he also likes her (i've had that before, and i still get pissed on that thought >.

tnx for everyones support =D i sould really check something on her before talking with
her
i feel very good about that, that i asked for some advice its make me more confident with myself

your welcome..
:D but you know... we're not really that reliable,
our advices may be like.... not that helpful...
if you want REAL helpful advice...
ask ur parents XD

so, hows the progress going with that girl? *grin
whats her name anyway? if u dont mind,

well.. yeah i asked my parents a few advices too
nothing new yet but her name is valentin

I would have to second Stevejaen's statement that we are not that reliable. Most of us who gave advice even said that we suck at dating (part of the reason I like AMG is bc I can simpathize with K1). Though good advice and intel can be gained from girls that you are comfortable with or ex-girlfriends (assuming you have any and you ended on good terms) or even former crushes that you got comfortable with but didnt quite make it with.

Is there any girls on this site who can give our Russian comrade help?