Welcome Guest Login/Register
Sun, 16 Mar 2025 02:14
Belldandy Gift

Love.

Topics Misc Love.
Morphee
Morphee
limitations are set (or not) when we're children... so when we grow up and fall in love, for us, we love uncontrolably, but we naturally give ourselves limitations.... so they don't seem as such. :)

well that's what i think
09-Jun-2006
chloe
chloe
That so true ... we have so many rules and regulations to abide to that it's bound to love ' uncontrolllably' when we find that special someone ... the boundaries we make is more a fear of getting really hurt! :)
09-Jun-2006
Morphee
Morphee
yeah, i don't see the point to consciously setting ourselves boundaries... it just prouves you're somehow afraid of loving too much and then getting hurt when it ends...

a person can't evolve, move on, grow up if they don't hurt themselves.
it's like when you learn how to ride a bike, are you going to stop trying, and therefore never learn, if you fall?
09-Jun-2006
chloe
chloe
yep can't agree more ... love is something you can never get enough of it, especially when you're lucky enough to be loved truely back!!
09-Jun-2006
Wolfwood
Wolfwood
""When you Fall in love, Dont give everything w/o leaving something for your self..
someday, somehow, it would be too late for you to realize that you've given all for the wrong
one w/o saving something for the right one""

Hehehe!!! lol!!
09-Jun-2006
Hikaryu
Hikaryu
Simply put: reserve some and be steady eh?
17-Jun-2006
Kei_kusanagi
Kei_kusanagi
well if you rserve some then would nt that mean that you don't truly love her? why even go into a relationship if you dont truly love her hehe...just love her with all of your heart...if things don't work out right...atleast you tried and "The stronger the bond, the more it'll hurt" thats just the way it is...can't change it
17-Jun-2006
keonyx
keonyx
Reserve Love? Thats the First Time I hear that, but, as Kei Said, If you love, you got to give it all!
17-Jun-2006
Lanz
Lanz
If you love someone...
Never ask opinion from others...
Coz it might get wrong...
Just Follow your heart!
For its better to follow from your own happiness...
Than to follow from anyone's advise...
18-Jun-2006
Hikaryu
Hikaryu
I was just simplyfying someone else's opinion. My opinion is rather complex... dunno if you guys can comprehend... well anyways. like lanz said... follow your heart! Advice is ok. But follow your heart!!!
22-Jun-2006
Lanz
Lanz
Another Tidbit o' Love...

TAKE RISKS!

THE HIGHER THE RISK, THE BETTER THE REWARD!
23-Jun-2006
keonyx
keonyx
Woah! That's True, REALLY true! Lanz, I Give you a Straight 100%, And Belive me Guys, The Rewards are Good, Really Really GOOD! :E :E :E
23-Jun-2006
Nighthawk8799
Nighthawk8799
Hmmm. I suppose I haven't been a in a relationship yet for a few reasons. Firstly, I think about things too much, and think so far ahead when it comes to relationships that I rarely look at what's in front of me. I'm also too passive and unlikely to take any risks by nature. Also, I grew up in a military family so I was moving all the time. I thought that I could never be in a place long enough to develop anything, and by the time I might I would move, ending all opportunity for a long term relationship.That's not to say I never had feelings, but because of all the reasons I listed I tended to keep them back cause I doubted they would go anywhere. I also didn't believe in forming a "relationship" at the junior high age because I considered it foolish to do something like that when at that age it is only imitation at best, and most people are not mature enough to put others needs before themselves in a healthy way. In my opinion, a lot of things wrong with the way relationships are viewed today, is that most peoples impressions are formed when they don't completely understand them, leading to fickleness and searching only for self gratification, but I digress. Now that I have a somewhat permanent living situation for the first time,and am in college, I don't have any excuses anymore.

Wow, that was longer than I meant it to be.
23-Jun-2006
keonyx
keonyx
You got some Good reasons NightHawk, but, no need to worry, I had My First Girlfriend at Highschool. But you said you have no more excuses now that you are at College, so, Take Risks, Haha, but hey, don't Rush it! Love is a Nice Feeling if it is Nourished well from the Start!
23-Jun-2006
suron
suron
love is really something to charish just be sure there's a good connection between the two of you ^_^ also if you feel at peace when with he/her then you are in true love i hope that can do it for you^_^
23-Jun-2006