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MustangX
MustangX
omg shes so hot im tellin ya
she have a really beautiful blond hair and a very pretty blue eyes just like the sky
i like her xP
07-Jun-2007
07-Jun-2007
armageddon90
armageddon90
QuoteOriginally posted by MustangX (view)
omg shes so hot im tellin ya
she have a really beautiful blond hair and a very pretty blue eyes just like the sky
i like her xP

Looks are important (to guys I suppose), but it is not everything
07-Jun-2007
MustangX
MustangX
yeah i know =P
07-Jun-2007
Dark_Urd
Dark_Urd
Wow, i'm suprised no girls replied to this to help you out...
Well, maybe I can offer my own pathetic, non-helpful advice?
Starting out as friends always works. My boyfriend and I knew each other for a few months from work before we got together. It's helpful for both of you that way because then you know a fair bit about the other person before you decide to commit to them.
Don't try digging things up on her before you even speak to her for the first time, that might just creep her out if she thinks you've been asking everyone about her. Just talk to her yourself. If you notice her reading a book or listening to music, ask what she's reading or listening to, and make sure you sound sincerely interested otherwise she'll just think you want to get in her pants.
I can really say much else since I don't know either of your personalities, but if she's as pretty as you say, you had better not wait or else someone will try and get close to her first. Just don't overwhelm her.
07-Jun-2007
MustangX
MustangX
Tnx really =P sounds great but now my bigger problem is that today i tried go talking to her but i just couldnt
shes the first girl im so shy to talk with i like froze
and i really dont know what to say if i go and talk to her
i think sometimes when i see her im getting too nervous
07-Jun-2007
EvilPaladin
EvilPaladin
I've felt that problem alot in the past with girls. a few things that help is to go in armed with a few conversation ideas/starters and a general goal that you want to reach with that converstation and to sorta think of it as a military strike (that at least helps me abit since I like FPS). Like you go in with your assault rifle of "Hey hows it goin?"(or something like that) and try to get cover and keep going by making the conversation going like... i dunno you can think of something up... Then when oppurtunity opens itself lob the compliment grenade like something on her clothing or if she did something different with her hair that day than the previous. Then go in with your shotgun which would be your goal going into the conversation which could vary from showing her around to taking her out to the bar or what ever. Then from there you can continue the conversation or find a way to extract yourself.

Another thing that could help you is if she is by herself, not alone in a dark alley alone but like alone at her locker not talking to anyone. When she is at her locker is a prime time to strike.

Dont fret with the freezing, many guys freeze, so your not the only freezer out there. I freeze BIG time. Just build your confidence and just push.

Now I say again regarding my advise. USE WITH CAUTION!! I am really bad at dating and get pretty bad results myself.
07-Jun-2007
MustangX
MustangX
hehe you did a nice thing with the weapons at least i know what to say just need to come up with something on the start

ouch i got jammed after the "hows it going" i cant come up with anything @__@
07-Jun-2007
07-Jun-2007
stevejaen
stevejaen
QuoteOriginally posted by MustangX (view)
Tnx really =P sounds great but now my bigger problem is that today i tried go talking to her but i just couldnt
shes the first girl im so shy to talk with i like froze
and i really dont know what to say if i go and talk to her
i think sometimes when i see her im getting too nervous

ive had that problem too,(eveeryone has to have this kind of prob) and went on for weeks until i cud finally go talk.. (well... i still feel shy when i do, the fear was just minimized)
i have to tell u something... but.......
you'll understand once i tell u the prob.. so tell me when you're ready... XD
there's like a problem that lays on your side...
07-Jun-2007
07-Jun-2007
MustangX
MustangX
im ready anytime =P
btw i had a super idea and i did it
i found some girls on icq and i wanted to see how the conversation goes
my first 3 attempts = failed :/ the conversation wasnt longer then 15 min
07-Jun-2007
07-Jun-2007
stevejaen
stevejaen
ehehehe.. the problem iss.... that you're really in love with her.... x_x hehehe
yeah, setiously, the reason you're shy is that you directly fell in love with her when you saw her..
awwww.... probably the things in your mind were:
'wow shes so beautiful' 'amazing, gourgeous' 'shes so preety/cute' 'she's sooo hot'
or even.. -'i love her'- XD hehe

the thing is, you had that on your mind when u first saw her,
you already want to talk to her, but u dont know what exacly to talk to her about
but you do want to express on one thing (and those are the quotes earlier) XD
thats why... you're already eager to express but can't... (yeah, thats courtship) XD

like what i posted earlier, same as with Dark_Urd..
friendship - be friends with her first... :D
control that urge to say those feeling for a while until you feel its ready,.
so talk to her, just avoid brnging in things about, your deep feelings, her feelings, crushes,
love, relationships etc...
(i maybe wrong on MANY things, so anyone, feel free to insult me and corect me XD)
07-Jun-2007
07-Jun-2007
Dark_Urd
Dark_Urd
Sorry to be the negative one, but I dont believe it is possible to fall in love that quickly. There has to be both a physical attraction as well as a personality connection.
08-Jun-2007
Lanz
Lanz
QuoteOriginally posted by MustangX (view)
you see there is a new girl in my highschool [in my class] and for the first time
since a very long period i feel shy and i kinda wanna ask her out on a date and for real
i dont know how so can some one give me an advice or something?


Awww....just like meh good 'ol days...

*remembers the time when he was also in mustang's situation*

What Steve's said is true...FRIENDSHIP is the key. If you're nervous on talking to her immedietly, try first with a simple 'hi' and 'hello'.

And as for darkie...well, what she said is also true. Maybe you're in love with her because of her looks, or because of her personality.

And as for me...here's what i'll recommend...

Be careful...love can be playful. ~_^
08-Jun-2007
stevejaen
stevejaen
well yeah... XD there was really a physical attraction at first... right?
so i just highlighted out the probable physical attraction thoughts, XD

Quote Lanz: Be careful...love can be playful. ~_^

( dont forget painful ^^)

now Mustang.. are u planning to really have a serious relationship with Valentine?
just asking... XD

XD (i was aslo planning to post things about 'friendship', but i created something that absolutley scared me and i thought... lol XD)
08-Jun-2007
Endymion
Endymion
Yeah, looks are deceiving maybe its a disguised alien that came from the UFO that somebody mentioned earlier :inoc:
08-Jun-2007
Tow3r
Tow3r
damn you are better then me i can't even talk whit female in my age whit older i can x.X
i am so kanashii

yeah yeah you think i am a gay ... or something i am not but i damn i feel so lonely .....
08-Jun-2007